When you take a close look at yourself, what do you see? When looking in a mirror, what do you say to yourself?
The truth is that every woman has a unique beauty of her own. I imagine you acknowledge and appreciate the beauty in your friends, but do you believe you’re beautiful? If your answer is “no,” I invite you to take a closer look.
When looking in the mirror, most women see something negative. They see themselves as not good enough: Too tall, too short, too thick, too thin, too shapely, not shapely enough -and the list goes on. Their self talk is also negative; they say things they wouldn’t dream of saying to any one else.
Apparently we’ve grown accustomed to bashing ourselves. We focus on our perceived faults and keep track of all the ways we don’t “measure up.” We fail to remember that the airbrushed, photoshopped magazine covers, are nothing more than an artistic illusion. Therefore, we make comparisons and determine we’re not good enough.
So what’s the answer? Are we doomed to a lifetime of feeling “not pretty enough” or “not valuable enough?” Absolutely not!
When trying to make changes, people are motivated more by praise than criticism. The same applies to ourselves. So instead of finding fault with your reflection, start affirming what you see. Be kind, complimentary and encouraging –just like you are to your good friends. Start discarding negative thoughts about yourself. Replace them with ones that help you to recognize and embrace your beauty.
As you declutter your thoughts, you’ll discover the truth: You, are beautiful!